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How
do I know if he is "Mr. Right?"
No one
is perfect, so how do you know if your boyfriend or girlfriend's faults
are going to be tolerable for the long term? Well, you have to enter
into marriage assuming that those things will never change, and might
potentially get worse. (It seems like everything is exaggerated after
you're married!)
One
of the most important qualities to look for is that your boyfriend or
girlfriend is willing to accept constructive criticism. My husband is
truly seeking a closer personal relationship with Christ and is allowing
the Lord to mold him and shape his character to become a more Godly
man. That gave me the assurance to know that he would allow God to point
out the areas that needed "fine tuning" and that he was open
to change. If he is allowing God to change him slowly over time, I don't
have to worry about taking on that job. Less nagging, better husband.
Well, that's how it worked for me anyway.
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