First of all, you don't meet "significant others"
you have to make them. The only way to meet someone
that you like and would want to pursue a relationship
with is by meeting a lot of people most of whom you
won't like.
I know how hard it is to meet people. I am very
outgoing and have been out of college for only a year,
and my social circle has gotten almost chokingly small.
Sometimes its just hard to get the motivation after
a long day at work to not slip into that old pair of
sweats and watch tv. But you can't meet
anyone in your livingroom for less than $2.99 a minute,
so its time to evaluate other options.
If I were looking for people to meet, (and thankfully
I am off the market) I would go where people are who
like to do the things I do hang ou