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Charlies Asks:

My name is Charlie and i have this problem. See i have been dating this girl for nearly three years and every thing has been great i thought she was the one i could spend forever with. Until about three months ago we were at this dance and as we were leaving there was this girl who i happened to notice was looking at me and of course I looked back and she kind of smiled. Well my problem is i cant get her out of my head even though i know i would never have a chance at her and i do love my girlfriend but i dont know if i should try to get in touch with her or not so what should i do?

Alicia Answers:

Dear Charlie-

Oh...isn't it nice to feel attractive? So you see this girl and you can't stop thinking about her, right?

Let me tell you something- the first time I saw Ben Davis, the new catcher for the San Diego Padres, I couldn't get him out of my mind, either. But I love my boyfriend. And I want to spend forever with him. And I'm not gonna go and try to contact him because it is stupid to jeopardize a good relationship for something flighty and in your head. And you may think you have a better chance of hooking up with this girl than I would with this pro baseball player, but the two are equally as ridiculous

I totally agree

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If there is something missing in your relationship that you need to work out, do that with your girlfriend, but don't obsess over something that is out of reach.

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Chances are, your girlfriend has probably had the same thing happen only she was not dumb enough to follow through with it.

Sorry Charlie, but leave this one alone.

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