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It sounds
like you may not belong in the dating game at all at
this point.
Dating Would Be Infidelity
Since you are separated and NOT divorced, you
are still married. Technically, dating someone else
would be infidelity. Perhaps you should turn those dating
energies into winning your wife back. It is not too
late.
You Could Get Back
I have heard of MANY couples who have been
separated and then gotten back together after some time
apart. In fact, despite the way things look, she may
be waiting to see just how serious you are about your
relationship. Maybe she wants to see if you will pursue
her. Or maybe not - that's for you to judge. Anyway,
I think people give up just too easily these days. A
commitment should mean something, and if it doesn't
to her, then at least you can know that you gave it
your best effort.
Now, assuming that by now the divorce is final, it still
sounds like you may not be ready for the "dating
gam
e ."
If you are feeling confused, rejected, and overwhelmed
by the whole thing, then maybe you should wait a little
while until you are ready for another relationship. For
now, you could invest your time and love in your kids,
who probably need you more than ever! I can imagine how
"lost" they must
feel, too.
Regardless of the situation you find yourself in - dating
or not, single or divorced, you should consider developing
a close relationship with God. He is the only one who
can truly fulfill the needs you have to be loved and accepted.
Even the best relationship or marriage in the world can't
truly give you lasting peace and contentment in your life.
People will always let us down in some way or another,
so He is the only one you can depend on.
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