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Lisalisalisalisa.
What to do. Well, the good news is that YOU'RE
ONLY 16! Therefore, no matter what you do, you
can always say, "Well, I'm only 16!"
Here's the bad news. You probably should do the
RIGHT thing, and yes, I'm pretty sure you know what
the "right" thing is for this SPECIFIC situation.
The "right" thing is not to treat your
boyfriend like dirt. If you start going after
his best friend, there's going to be LOT'S of bad feelings
to spread around.
Depend on it. You'll hurt your boyfriend, you might
make the best friend do things he'll wish he hadn't, and
you'll be in a traumatic situation until things
 smooth
over. There's nothing good that can come out of
this. Oh yeah, except if you get the best friend.
But if his best friend would go out with you while you're
the girlfriend, getting "best friend" doesn't
seem to me like much of a deal.
Something similar happened to me in that my best friend
married a girl I had been seeing for awhile. But
you see, that was cool, because I had already broken
up with the girl and my friend, being a mensch, even
asked me if I would mind if they dated. However,
we were all much older than 16 when this happened.
As an aside,
I kind of wonder why you are exclusively dating only one
person for 18 months. Don't you feel that you want
to see what other people are like?
Wouldn't you like to see if you meet someone who REALLY
deserves you? And maybe not just someone's best
friend? I mean, there's probably a whole BUNCH
of people in your school you haven't met yet.
Anyways, if you want to experiment, I guess you'll
see what happens. Sheesh, I wish I was 16 again!
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