I have heard that it takes half the time that a relationship
lasted for the parties involved to get over that relationship.
However, this theory seems so arbitrary that couples
who hear of this rule promptly start debating about
how long it would take each of them to get over the
other. Affecting factors in the relationship are
also discussed, e.g. quality of their relationship,
who would dump who, how long the relationship was downsizing,
etc.
No One is Perfect
I try to rate potential mates on a continuum.
Ax murderers and substance abusers are on the lower
end of the scale. Rich heiresses who shower me
with love and presents are at the top of the scale.
A woman whose beloved husband died yesterday, who cries
constantly and continuously moans about her horrible
loss has pretty low potential.
Where do I put Mr. Rebound? He's a nice guy,
seems very reasonable and tries to work on the situation
with you. Moreover, he seems interested in long
term relationships (based on past history), is very
interested in you, and you seem to like him.
Is a month enough time for him to handle the
