This is a good idea it usually adds a new spark especially if you've fallen into a rut. But I am a firm believer in spur-of-the-moment, heat-of-passion approach. I often sneak up on my wife when we clean the kitchen together (I cook we clean. This also gives more leverage in the sex department.) and fondle her. This gets her in the mood and she knows that I still find her sexual attractive.

LeTerian