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Well, right now I'm working in a broadcasting company, but
I'm still studying Mass Communications)
Younger Man, Older Woman
I've been in 3 different relationships, like my first steady
who was 7 years older than me. I was 16 and she was 24 (now
I'm 21 and she's married). Fortunately we understood each
other and somehow coped up with each other's age-level-hangups,
sometimes talking about relationship problems.
Those Who Understand Suffer the Most
.one thing I could say is those who understand the problem
are the ones who end up feeling the more "hurt".
We understand the problem, we understand the people involved
and whatever they do, whatever they say, we would just say
"Well if you don't want to understand the situation,
I'm not gonna hate u coz I understand."
I hope I'm right, because I've tested it in my relationships
and somehow it worked..
Feeling Is More Important Than Thinking
I could put in all virtues like honesty, kindness, faithfulness,
etc. in a relationship to make it work. In a relationship,
too much thinking on how to work it out (for me) is definitely
wrong; too much thinking sets aside the feeling,
which is the more important part.. :)
Subjectivity Better Than Objectivity
I think I can be more subjective rather than objective, because
relationships are "particulars" more personal.
That's what is common here in Asia. And of course, going the
who, what, when, where, how, and why is a must in giving tips.
Jack
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