I am 27 years old, married for the moment, although I am considering a divorce. The jury is still out.

I believe in being as happy as I can be, and not settling for security or stability, just because it is more comfy. I don't mind being alone, I actually enjoy it. I like people around me on my terms, and am scathingly honest, and quite cynical, which doesn't always sit well with new acquaintances. I don't have everything figured out (in fact, I submitted a question this morning).

I have had several boyfriends and dated quite a bit, but am not on speaking terms with any of the guys I dated. It doesn't help that they are 15,000 miles away, since I moved out of my country, Argentina, at 19, to go to college in the USA.

I have few close friends, three to be exact, counting my younger brother. There is one "bestest" male friend I can't do without, with whom I always stay in touch in spite of the distance, and a few acquaintances I feel quite indifferent about.

I have dumped guys, other times I have been dumped. I have lied, been lied to, I have been honest sometimes too. I have been in love, out of love, and in several stages of lust. I guess if I haven't been there and done that, at least I've been willing to try it.

Love and Thought Don't Go Together

My philosophy? As in a system of thought that you apply to resolve situations? I don't think that is possible. Love and thought do not necessarily go hand in hand. And not all relationships can be evaluated on the same level. At best, you are flying blind. At worst, you are still flying blind, but you don't know you are up in the air.

I approach relationships, and the different situations I come across in each, on a case-by-case basis. My outlook changes with age, the person involved, and the time of the month. PMS is a killer.

I Reserve the Right To Be Inconsistent

My point of view is unique, because I reserve the right of being inconsistent. While I might tell one person one thing, I may just tell someone in roughly the same situation a different thing. I get a feel for the people involved based on the language used, the way of expressing their problem, not only the problem itself as they perceive it to be. So my answers change all the time.

My tendency would be to tell you to do whatever makes you the happiest, without much of a value judgment, or a moral standpoint.

I am not quite an atheist, in that I believe there may quite possibly be at least one supreme force/god/whatever in the universe, but I couldn't care less what that force thinks, so I don't base my reasoning or actions on any religious code. I mostly think you are responsible for your own course in life, even when most times you can't see all the ramifications of your actions at the time you make a decision.

– Luthien