Hi.

I am a 27 year old woman who works in information technology. My dream job-to be a firefighter, I know kind of different.

I'm an active single gal who has always had more male friends than girl friends. Some of the men I've dated understand this, and some of them don't.

Besides my fairy tale relationship in high school I've dated several men and have had two serious long term relationships, one of which I ended last December. I've dated guys whose lives revolve around beer or themselves. Men who were boring, spastic, insecure and worst of all controlling.

Relationships are based on trust and respect. If either are lacking, then the relationship will probably fail or one of the partners is missing out.