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Reader
Ricky Responds:
I disagree
with this statement because sex is not about security or
lack thereof. It's about expressing emotional and physical
love.
If after
7 years of the "same old thing" and he's still
wanting it, there is definitely something that has him hooked!
If she says that she's incompatible, why not talk to him
and become compatible?
Ask him
to do something that turns you on and gets you excited.
Planning when to have sex makes it a chore, not something
spontaneous and fun. Plus, it'll just get more boring from
there. Be adventurous. If it really bothers you that he
wants sex all the time, work with him and tell him that
youíre not always in the mood like he is, but still
keep him satisfied or he may go elsewhere.
Besides
who knows, if you rekindle that spark for yourself, it may
be him asking to slow down.
– Ricky
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