Let's see, woman (although it sounds like a girl - doesn't it remind you of high school? You know, my friend told me he told her he only did that as a joke, blah blah) wants to get back together with jealous guy who's treated her like crap in the past. Why don't we females ever learn? If a guy is jealous, treats you badly, RUN the other way, and look for good ones. What will it take for us to gain enough self esteem and self respect to value ourselves enough not to put up with crap from guys? I ask you!!!

Oh come on Linda, we've all had at least one Carlos in our lives! I remember mine.  When I look back on what I put up with, it's pathetic! But I thought I really loved him.  What I know now that I didn't know then was that I just didn't think enough of myself to walk away from the jerk.  I wish women (or girls) like lovesick could have the hindsight that other girls like us have earned the hard way.  From the sound of her note though, she wants to go back....don't you think?

I know, I've had quite a few Carlos' in my life. Of course she wants to go back...she thinks she loves him. I think she doesn't know what love is. The feelings you have for someone who treats you badly and is jealous aren't love, it's a desire to prove to yourself you're loveable by "getting" someone. I'd say, don't try to get him back. Move on!

That's right, I know because it happened to me.

Me too.  I'd say move on and stay strong, because the minute she discovers she doesn't need him, he'll be back at her.  Ain't love grand?