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You
have brought up three separate issues that maybe in
your head feel like they are all related, but try to
break them apart.I was there not too long ago and so
I won't try to tell you that you're too young to know
what love is, as I know how real the feelings that you
are having are. However, I will tell you that
it gets better. I know how hard it is to breakup
with someone that you have been with for that long,
but the longer you stay with somebody that is not right
for you, the harder it is to believe that you deserve
better. So, while you have the feeling, it is
time to break up with the guy.
The second thing is that you have 'cheated' on your
boyfriend. While you say that the kisses didn't
mean anything, they really do. They do not necessarily
say that you had feelings for the guys that you kissed,
but the action clearly shows that you are looking for
something or someone better, or at least, different.
The last thing is hooking up with your boyfriendís
best friend.
HUGE mistake. First of all, most guys have had
their best friends for a long time. They are probably
so alike that you see the friend as you once saw your
boyfriend. There was probably a time that you
thought your boyfriend was cute, funny and had the best
personality, too, but it gets old. Especially
in high school when there are so many options and opportunities
to try new things.
Have fun while you're in
HIgh School
So, here ís my advice. End your relationship.
If not for you, out of respect for your boyfriend, because,
after all, you were the one hooking up behind his back.
Also, leave his friend alone.
Remember all the friends you had before you isolated yourself
in this relationship? Find them. Do things with
them. Go to parties.
 Meet
people. You do not always have to have a boyfriend,
and honestly, when I was 16 and broke up with my boyfriend
of 18 months, I didnít get another boyfriend until
the very end of my senior year. And not because
I couldnít, bu
t
because high school is so much more fun with skinny dipping
pool parties, kissing someone just because you think theyíre
hot
,
and doing things that once you graduate, you will never
have the opportunity to do again.
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