Dear Miss,

Who said anything about clinging? How about talking to him?

Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to "win" him. The smartest thing you could do is to give him some time and "space." The worst thing you could do is to appear desperate or cling to him.

If he truly does care about you, chances are he will realize that he made a mistake by leaving the relationship. If not, then unfortunately there is little you can do about it. Remember that he will not respect you unless you respect yourself. Do not throw yourself at him. And don't think of yourself as stupid!

Perhaps you were distant because this relationship really wasn't right, and deep down inside you knew it?

That was the best advice I have had on this situation and I have asked a ton of people.

The pain of a breakup is so intense that it sometimes tricks us into thinking that we need that other person, when in fact we are better off without him.

Hang out with your girlfriends and have fun

Give yourself some time to heal, and then see if you still feel the same way. If, after some time, you still feel very strongly about him, you should consider making contact once, but remember: Nothing turns a guy off faster than desperation!

 

But telling him how she feels, would not be throwing herself at him

Think about all of the good and unique qualities you have to offer in a relationship (after all, you were created to be different from anyone else on the planet!) and have confidence when you approach him. If he is not interested in what you can offer, then move on to someone who is!

– Hope