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Dear
Colvin-
Okay, maybe its just me, but I would be very upset
if I was going to get married and my boyfriend were
to call it off, or "postpone" for some cold
feet issue. Thankfully she is doing this now instead
of asking for "space" a year or two after
the wedding.
This is a sure sign that there is doubt in her mind,
which should probably alert you to share those doubts.
Use this to your advantage or use this time to evaluate
what you're getting into.
If she
is truly committed to you, she will not want to date
other people, and you have every right to be upset about
that. If you choose to stand by her, she will
take advantage of your kindness, then you'll fall into
the same category as "stuck
in a bad loop"
who asked if he was too nice.
Do your thing, give her the opportunity to "get
to know you again", but don't let it tweak your
head.
If she loves you as much as you love her, she'll realize
that she is screwing up and runs the risk of losing you
and she'll come back. If not, it may mean the end
is near, but better now than later.
Good luck and let me know what happens!
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