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That
depends... ARE YOU UPSET? I don't think anyone
could tell you if you should be upset over this arrangement
or not. If you are, you are.
 There
is little you can do about changing your feelings; how
you respond to your feelings is a whole other matter.
Be honest with yourself and with
her. If dating other people is not what you want, or
it would be too difficult for you to be part of a relationship
like that after having been engaged, then tell her so.
If it honestly doesn't bother you, then give her some
space and allow her to date other people.
 The
key here is to deal honestly with how you truly feel,
because if you agree to this arrangement but are secretly
bothered by it, the truth will eventually come out one
way or another. You will not be able to hide it, plus
it will probably lead to other unhealthy thoughts or actions
like fear or resentment. |
