Dear Panel,

I have a problem (duh)! 

I dated this guy for about 2 years.  After we broke up, he found out that I had cheated on him, but then I found out that he had gone out with his ex after we had broken up, but while we were still talking (and intimate).

We were both wrong, but he acts as if he is innocent and he places all the blame on me.  We still talk, go out, don't see other people, etc.  as if we were a couple, but he says that he doesn't know if he can trust me enough to get back together with me?

I love him too much to let him go.  I have even tried to go out with other people, but I always end up crying & missing him when I'm with someone else!  Any advice?

 – Lonely & Confused