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Dear reader,
The problem may be in the way you're approaching this –
do you want to attract or act? Here's how it works:
Attraction Approach
Let's say that you decide you want to get a new pet.
The attraction approach says:
- Put out a bowl of pet food,
- See what it attracts,
- Keep whatever animal shows up.
Action Approach
The action approach says:
- Go to an animal shelter,
- Meet all of the animals,
- Adopt the pet that is right for you and loves you.
Same thing applies to approaching (human) love. You
don't want to set out a bowl of prettiness and take whatever
shows up.
My Method for Meeting the Right Person
You want to choose the man that is right for you.
To get started, consider my yet-to-be-patented method for
meeting the right person:
Be Genuine
Be genuine and kind with all of the men you meet. This includes
your co-workers, your friend's brother, the guy you meet at
a party, etc. Today's friend may be tomorrow's lover.
Don't Reject Them Because They're Not Cool
Judge each man on how kind, thoughtful, and interesting he
is not on how good looking, cool, or highly paid he is.
(I went through a phase where I rejected most men for not
being cool enough for me. This kept me from dating for
years.)
Stay Away from Negative or Unavailable Guys
Quickly move away from men who are negative, mean, unavailable
(e.g. married, gay) or who ignore you.
Let Him Know
If you find someone great, let him know. He may be
shy. Many of the good ones are.
Have a great time, and stop worrying about it. It WILL
happen!
– Mare
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