One minute he is nice, and the next minute you want
to kick his butt? So, are you saying that you
don't like it when guys are nice, or are you saying
that he has wild mood swings and turns nasty after being
nice? I will assume that he gets nasty with you after
you think he is a nice guy.
The next question is, why do YOU
think he gets nasty. Do you provoke him to be
nasty by what you say or do, or does he get irritated
over nothing?
Assuming that YOU have nothing to do with this guy's
moodswings, I would suggest that you RUN, not walk,
to the nearest exit.
If you are doing something that irritates him and causes
him to turn nasty, I would suggest that you RUN, not
walk, to the the nearest exit.
The guy is probably a control freak who wants to keep
you off balance. He is likely afraid of intimacy,
as you so aptly suggested, and unless you like kicking
someone's butt all the time, you probably are not a
match. You deserve to find someone
who gives you good feelings 95%
