Hope said:

I don't think you should totally give up on the idea of telling him how you feel, but it might be better to let him somehow make the first move.

A Reader responds:

I disagree. My best friend (a male) has been hinting that he has more than platonic feelings for me. He has also mentioned more than once that he never makes the first move.

Although one might say that his hints are a first move of sorts, I know that ultimately it is up to me decide when/if we become "more than friends."

-- Taking my time to make up my mind.

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