First of all you are married. Cheating on him
with another woman is equally as bad as cheating on
him with another man. If this is a shared fantasy,
hey, to each his own and go for it, but do it together.
I mean, don't sneak around and hide something that should
be as much his as it is yours.
Does he just want to watch or is he interested in joining
in? Would you be okay with him being intimate
with somebody else behind your back? You may have
already gone your own way and met that woman, but if
not, I really suggest you think hard about this.
We're not just talking about the physical act, but
all of the emotions that go along with it. It
just seems that in this kind of thing, someone always
gets hurt. Maybe you will find yourself wanting
more with other women than with your own husband.
Maybe your husband will seek out other women.
Maybe you will regret it later and feel ashamed and
resentful that he wanted you to do this.
