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Dear Panel,

I am a married female and I am curious about being with another woman (sexual).   My husband has a fantasy of me and another woman together but does not know I have the same fantasy.  I am meeting someone this weekend to see how it goes.  Should I tell him or not.

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curious

Lefty Answers:

Dear Curious,

Now you've got me curious too.  I want to know how it goes-and my advice is that it's ok to tell ME.  I also know of a woman who you might be interested in.

Is your question really "Should I tell your husband"?

Don't ask - don't tell.

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There's so much stuff involved in the sexual stuff you're proposing to do, that "telling your husband" is kind of trivial. 

Reader

She should definitely tell him.

Sure, go ahead and tell your husband.  Or not. 

Why not involve him in a three-some if it's his fantasy too?  Or not.  If you went out and had sex with a male, would you tell your husband?  Would you involve him in that?  Would that be different than having sex with a female?

I'm not sure what you're looking for in an answer.  There is a very good probability you will introduce (more) chaos into your marriage relationship.  Do you have children?  Is your marriage hurting already?

Whatever.  Fantasies cannot hurt you.  Actions can.  Take a think about what you are planning to do and the consequences thereof.

Lefty

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