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Jody said:

If Patrick is using the porn for masturbation, which he probably is, he is demonstrating that he sees women as a tool to be used for self-satisfaction. Sex to him is something he GETS not a relationship he HAS.

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Lefty said:

"The answer is that some men are trustworthy and some are not. "

I agree. I have had several men lie to me in the past 3 years, not all in a romantic relationship, but being lied to hurts no matter what the relationship is. and Lefty is right some men are trustworthy, others aren't. My best friend is a guy, and I know I can trust him wholeheartedly. We talk about everything. But my ex-boyfriend often made empty promises, to the point where I'd cut him off and say "You'll make it up to me, yeah I know".

The best way to see if you can trust a guy is not only become friends with him first, but just be observant. Watch how he talks about other people with you, see how often he makes a promise and keeps it. Watching his treatment of others will help you decide.

Men can be untrustworthy, but to be fair, so can women. We just malnipulate instead of lie. Don't give up on them, they can be good. :)

Johanna

 

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