Run -- don't walk -- away from this man immediately.  I can tell from your letter that he is far too dangerous for you.  "Belong together" indeed!

Hey! Sarcasm is supposed to be my bag.

That charlatan is surely after your money or your estate.  But seriously...

You should let yourself love him with wild abandon. 

But if you take it slow enough, there is much less risk.

Of course there is risk. Love is always risky.  Even when both parties are completely committed, things can go wrong.  Romeo and Juliet found this out the hard way, I dare say.

I agree, love is risky.

  But even R&J felt that living a short life with love was a far, far better thing than living life without love.

Just take things slowly.  Get to know him and don't move in

Now, you tell me!

together after two weeks.  This will help you both build trust.  It will also help you figure out if this is the right guy for you.  Maybe he's not to be trusted, then again he may be your Romeo.