I do agree with this person, although I am a male who is trying to gain the trust of a woman.  I'm a male who finds it hard to trust, yet falling for a woman who can't trust. It's frustrating.  I am putting my heart out there on the line a little at a time, but get it broken every time I try to get inside her.  what I'm trying to say is that we are all scared, but if we we really want something, we need to put our hearts out there, just a little.  Love takes risk.