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Dear Panel,

What do I do? I am 16 and I am very attracted to someone significantly older than I am. And he treats me well, I've known him for ever, and well the only problem is he used to be the vice principal of my school and well he doesnt know that I am in love with him. Also, i recently went to visit him in another state and i wanted something to happen but nothing did.

My question is should I tell him I like him, considering the fact that i have liked him for over 4 years, or should I keep it to myself and forget about it? help me please....

Ms M & M's

Alicia Answers:

Ms M&M's

Are you out of your mind? The problem I have with you is that I know how you feel. When I was 17 I hooked up with a 34 year old musician who was touring and had a record deal, etc. No matter what my friends told me I thought that I was special, that he treated me different.

I still know him 6 years later and know that he used me, that what he did to me he did to a lot of girls and he was really

And this is the best scenario that she could hope for.

into sex with underage girls.

Although you are the one pursuing this guy, you are making a HUGE mistake. It is rare that a relationship could ever survive with such an age gap in today's society. It's all about Amy Fisher here back off. Take the relationship for what it is.

Maybe he's easy to talk to or he's helped you out with a problem. He is not material for you to fall in love with. And if you really cared about him you wouldn't let him even risk losing his job for a ga-ga teenybopper.

-Alicia

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