Dear Panel,

I recently started talking to a guy I met on vacation last year.  We now live in the same city, and are thinking about dating.  The problem is last year, while I didn't sleep with him, we did fool around a bit more than I usually do with someone I just met. 

Now, I'd like to take things slower.  Do you think he'll be alright with that, or will he want to start where we left off?