Dear Panel,

My long-distance boyfriend (I live in Texas, he's in Canada) of over a year recently broke up with me when I went to visit him. He says that I'm 'everything' he wants and needs, but doesn't think I'm the 'one'.

This is very surprising, because we were 'unofficially engaged' (engaged without a ring) for quite a while, and had practically planned every part of our wedding except the date. I never see him (of course) but I know I still love him..he says that because he didn't love me in a year, we must not be right for each other, but I know 'You Can't Hurry Love'..What should I do?

tearful texan