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Dear Panel,

 what should I do if me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and (don't laugh) we have not kissed. everytime I get close she moves or somthing?

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earl

Alicia Answers:

First of all, I am not laughing.

Who are and what have you done with the REAL Alicia?

aliciaLtin.gif It is okay that you have been together for a long time without kissing.  There is no reason to pressure her into doing so either.  If you have a problem with it, let her know why. 

Let her know that you want to kiss her because you want to express your feelings for her.

Or sometimes in her past could be the problem.

  StephAt first many girls have hang-ups about kissing like what if you don't like the way she kisses or what if she loses her breath, or what if you don't stop with the kissing and pressure her into other things.  

Let her know that she is in control and you won't do anything to make her uncomfortable or do anything against her will, but that all you want is to give her a smooch.

Like I said before - give her the keys.

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