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Dear Panel,

A few months ago I became interested in this guy and I dumped my bf for him. The guy and I almost had sex but I stopped it while we were in the middle. I found out a month later that he had been going with another girl for 4 years but to him they don't go together to her they do. She is pregnant with his baby, but I still want him.

On the other hand my best friend brought my ex back into the picture and she wants me to be with him but I want to be with the other guy. I know that I could never have a relationship with the other guy and I think I am willing to accept that. If I was to call this guy up right now we would be together within a few hours. I know this is not best for me but do you think I should just mess with him to get him out of my system then move on with my life? I am so confused and I need help. I know my ex is better for me but I am not physically attracted to him but I am attracted to the other guy.Please help.

stuck on stupid -------------

Alicia Answers:

Sorry to disappoint you Stuck on Stupid, but HE is not the one that is stupid in this equation. Do you not care about your own well being at all? If all you want is to get laid, then advice isn't what you need.

Everything in your question reeks of ambiguity, and you should probably forget both guys until you develop a sense of self worth, self value, and any sense of who you are and what you need. The guy you "almost" had sex with is no better. He has already got a baby on the way do you want to make it two? If what you want is a hot guy to lust after, read magazines, but if you want to grow up and have a real relationship, use your brain and stay away from this guy.

Don't get yourself caught in an ugly kharmic cycle, because one day you might actually have a sound relationship and in your fourth year, some little skank will come and "almost" have sex with your boyfriend.

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