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Dear Panel,

A few months ago I became interested in this guy and I dumped my bf for him.  The guy and I almost had sex but I stopped it while we were in the middle.  I found out a month later that he had been going with another girl for 4 years but to him they don't go together to her they do.  She is pregnant with his baby, but I still want him. 

On the other hand my best friend brought my ex back into the picture and she wants me to be with him but I want to be with the other guy.  I know that I could never have a relationship with the other guy and I think I am willing to accept that. If I was to call this guy up right now we would be together within a few hours. I know this is not best for me but do you think I should just mess with him to get him out of my system then move on with my life?  I am so confused and I need help.  I know my ex is better for me but I am not physically attracted to him but I am attracted to the other guy.Please help.

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Lefty Answers:

Dear Stuck on Stupid,

Please, please, please do not have children.  At this point.  Stopping sex in the middle is not always a good method of birth control.  Please use protection.  It would be a terrible mistake for you to have children (like this guy's other girl).

Ok, now having said that, what possible advice could I give you that you would listen to?  You are interested in a man so callus and irresponsible that he gets a woman pregnant and does not consider himself "going together" with her.  And you want to get together with your ex because he's "better" for you but you don't even think about the hurt he must be going through.

Listen, go and have your fun and be with whomever you want to be with.  But please do not have kids.

Lefty

 

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