I don't usually send comments about all those questions,
but when I read this, one a big alarm went off in my mind.
GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP! As fast as you can!
You probably won't trust me on this, but all you're listing,
how this boyfriend of yours is acting sounds dangerous.
Think about this for a moment: he tells you spend more time
with your friends and THEN tells you it make HIM feel not
needed; you tell him one lie at the BEGINNING of a relationship
(now c'mon guys be honest, we've all done that) and now he
can't trust you AT ALL??
This guy is a first class manipulator. You will NEVER
do right by him, there'll always be something he can criticize
you about; and then he'll be so good as to FORGIVE YOU again,
but at what price?
If you have an ounce of love for yourself (and you should
since you're the only person you'll spend the rest of your
life with), get out. Hope you find the strenght to do
it before it's too late.
Lots of love your way.