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I understand
exactly what you are going through. A very similar thing happened
to me a year ago with my best male friend at the time. He
then told everyone that I was easy. It too broke my heart.
I don't believe just letting this go will help anything,
for rumors spread really fast and grow even worse with every
person that knows it. I think that it would be best if you
talked one-on-one with this boy. Let him know that this hurts
your feelings and that you never said anything hurtful or
mean about him because of this.
You probably realize now that this wasn't the smartest thing
to do at your age. But I'm not going to lecture you for something
I have done. I can tell you this much however: as much as
it may sound harsh, this boy has violated a MAJOR boundary
of trust. He dissed you in a MAJOR way, and you might have
to prepare yourself to leave this friendship behind until
this boy matures a little and acts like a man.
As I said, talk to him, just the two of you, and see what
he says. If he sounds even SLIGHTLY bogus, leave this scrub
in the dust. You don't need to let his immaturity drag you
down. As for your friends, talk with them. Have you told them
YOUR side of the story yet? If they are your friends, they
wont let whatever lies he says get in the way of the friendship.
You sound really keen on how your emotions are at this point
in your life, so you have a VAST advantage over the fella
right away. He might feel as if he's messed up and he doesn't
know how to deal with it. Needless to say, it doesn't excuse
his behavior. You obviously aren't emotionally ready for what
you got into with this boy, so keep that in mind and work
on your emotions. And whatever you do PLEASE don't let this
boy sucker you into getting with him again. Keep this friend
at a distance until he proves himself worthy of your time,
because you just simply SOUND better than him!!!! Hope I've
helped you and good luck!
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