Dear Kelcine - Even having unattractive men approach you can be kind of an ego boost (unless they are creepy, in which case its just uncomfortable!)  But getting asked for your number is not really meeting men.  Its just being picked up.  Meeting men involves having a conversation with someone who you find interesting and would be willing to get to know better.  So, you are having a problem meeting men!

There IS something wrong with being choosy if she is not that attractive.

There is nothing wrong with being choosy, and knowing what type of person you find attractive.  Have you ever tried to start a conversation with a man you find attractive? Or, if there are men that you know that you find attractive, have you put yourself in a position to get to know them better socially?

As I said to a previous reader, do you want to act or attract.

  Stop waiting for the most gorgeous man in the room to approach you - if you find him attractive, tell him so, and see what happens!  Some of the nicest things men have ever siad to me have had nothing to do with asking me out or for my number, but compliments like my dress is really nice or a good color or they liked what I said in a meeting.  And men like those kind of compliments as well.  Just go for it.