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Dear
Kelcine,
At
first reading of your question, I thought it was exactly
like another question that we had replied to at Love&Learn.
However, that was a
question about attracting a "type" of man
that
the reader was interested in. On second reading of your
letter, I believe that this is a much shallower question,
i.e. you're just concerned with the physical attractiveness
of men who approach you. If this is NOT the case,
you can stop reading this reply and read the aforementioned
reply. Otherwise, keep on reading for my slightly
different answer.
If you are not getting physically attractive stud muffins
to come knocking down your door, what could possibly
be the problem? Well...the first thing that comes
to mind, and pardon me for my boorishness, is, um...how
do I put this; you're no Heather Locklear yourself?
Because if you are slightly appearance challenged, like
the rest of us, maybe you can lower your standards and
get excited about guys who aren't George Cluneys.
If your standards are hard and fast, then it's up to
you to take action and find that perfect shallow stallion.
 You
can go to a dating service where you get to pick that
potential suitor by his picture. Or you can do what
us guys do and walk up to that perfect body at the health
club and ask that person how much those awesome pecs can
bench press. Good luck. Really.
Lefty
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