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Dear Panel,

well, um.....i went out with this guy for about 11 months and we broke up over something stupid. And now it's been 8 months since we're not together. But he just recently asked out this girl, and was one of my close friends!(well not anymore) and they've been goin out for about 2 months. like 2 days ago i went to my friend's house and he was there also and we started to get close again. but like 2 weeks ago the girl that he's goin out with almost cheated on him. so when we were cuddling at my friend's house i asked him if he's only with me to get back at her and he said no. he still loves me! and i just wanted to know if i should kiss him or do even more things with him when we get close again? Because i still love him and i still want him back! 

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Elmo69
 

p.s. i hope none of this is confusing you guys!

Judith Answers:

It is actually pretty confusing.  I'm really not sure what to tell you - he is already seeing someone else.  Do you want to be the person he cheats on her with?

First she has to decide why she really wants him back.

singletin2.gif You obviously can't take him back if he has another girlfriend. 

You'll have to tell him

I think she should just cool it for now.

singletin2.gif that you want him back but only if you are the only girl for him and see what happens - unfortunately, this time its his decision to make, not yours.

I disagree, that would make vulnerable.

singletin2.gif The only thing you can choose is how to react - and you can choose to act in a mature fashion to whatever his decision is.

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