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Dear Panel,

well, um.....i went out with this guy for about 11 months and we broke up over something stupid. And now it's been 8 months since we're not together. But he just recently asked out this girl, and was one of my close friends!(well not anymore) and they've been goin out for about 2 months. like 2 days ago i went to my friend's house and he was there also and we started to get close again. but like 2 weeks ago the girl that he's goin out with almost cheated on him. so when we were cuddling at my friend's house i asked him if he's only with me to get back at her and he said no. he still loves me! and i just wanted to know if i should kiss him or do even more things with him when we get close again? Because i still love him and i still want him back! 

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Elmo69
 

p.s. i hope none of this is confusing you guys!

Lefty Answers:

Dear Elmo69,

Well, like, it's a little confusing, but let me see if I've got it right, RECAP TIME!  Girl

You are only confused because you didn't date in High School.?

  singletin2.gifand boy breakup, boy meets another girl, girl gets together with boy, other girl almost cheats on boy; oh, oh, I just got lost again.  Dang.

How young/old ARE you guys?

I'm 15 years old.

  singletin2.gifWhy does this sound like a (junior) high school scenario to me?  It seems like you guys are having intense feelings toward each other, act on them, and then have to face the consequences.  I think that you are all trying to sort out your feelings, and experiment, socialize, and grow at the same time.  Which sometimes develops into a mess among (ex) boy and girl friends.

It sounds like your (ex) boyfriend might be a little confused with his feelings about who

He is not confused, he is just trying to manipulate everything.

singletin2.gif he should go out with, and it's unfortunate that your (ex) girlfriend is playing her role too. It's gotten a little messy now, and you should cool it temporarily by removing yourself from the situation. Concentrate on other things for awhile and let the situation stabilize. Isn't it possible to date someone else and not be involved with this guy exclusively?  After all, it sounds like he's seeing both you and your (ex) girlfriend now.  You may end up back together, but I think it's just a little too messy right now for comfort.

Lefty

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