Dear Hypergrrl,

Maybe Guys at School Are Afraid You'll Reject Them

There's an OBVIOUS reason: guys at camp only want one thing.

Maybe the boys are more afraid to approach you in school because of all the other people around who may be watching (which means there is greater potential for embarrassment if they get rejected). Maybe peer pressure from the other guys at school is holding them back. Maybe they are preoccupied with starting school, football, homework, etc.

You Don't Need Guys To Measure Your Self-Worth

There could be many reasons why guys do not confront girls they are interested in. But you don't want that to determine how you feel about yourself or to measure your worth as a young woman. Whether ten guys or NO guys show interest in you, you are valuable person, different from every other person on the planet!

Just Wait for That One Guy

But I get jealous of other girls at school who have greast boyfriends.

And you don't need a ton of guys to be interested in you anyway -- just the one who is meant for you, So if it takes years for that one to come along, he is worth the wait.

God Will Bring You the Perfect Guy

But maybe her attractiveness at camp IS an act of God.

God has a plan for your life, and He loves you intensely. He wants you to be happy, so He may be waiting to bring the perfect one that He has created for you. Try to be patient and wait for His best plan for your life!

– Hope