Dear Panel,

My best friend has been in love with this guy for almost a year, but he doesn't even care about her. 

About 2 months ago he started calling me, and before I knew it I was in love with him and he returned those feelings. 

I haven't told my friend yet because she has been gone for 3 months.  I don't know whether to forget him and stay with my friend, or how to break to her the news. Can you help me?

– Dazed and Confused in Houston