I disagree because people can't expect that they will have the ideal man/woman to fall in love with. No one is perfect! You just fall in love because your heart does. Not your mind. And when its over you will feel it.

It's true that men have an ideal image of a women, but it's not true that they only fall in love with that kind of women. Men CAN be "softy" and they CAN have very sweet feelings. They are very sensitive.

What I'm trying to say is that you can't expect someone to be like what you want him/her to be. Let him/her develop as they want to be. Don't bother them. Then you will see if you really love somone forever.