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Dear Grizzy,
Self-Esteem
Comes First
Your self-esteem should
be your first concern. Try to think about what you want from
the relationship, instead of worrying about how your boyfriend will
react to your reaction. You also need to protect yourself
from sexually transmitted diseases (especially HIV), if he is having
real world sex with other people. Take care of yourself.
He
May Not Be Gay
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Regardless,
is Grizzy a guy or a girl? |
I'm sure a lot of people
will jump to the conclusion that your boyfriend is gay. This
may be true. (This
was the unanimous conclusion of my gay male friends, but they have
a tendency to think that everyone is gay.)
However, it may be true
that he is bisexual or straight. Believe it or not, there
are some straight men whose sexual fantasies go beyond the boundaries
of Playboy Forum. This could include fantasies about other
men. (Shocking, isn't it?!)
Here's the key: ASK HIM.
Ask him how he is feeling about you and your relationship.
Ask him what's going on with nude pics of men. Ask him if
he thinks he might be gay. Then once you've got the information,
see if it fits with what you want for yourself. Don't accept
anything less than what is comfortable for you.
You deserve to be in
a loving relationship.
– Mare
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