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I'm sure your friendship
took a while to build the first time. And that was without
any confusing, somewhat traumatic events between you - now you are
starting over with a "past" behind you. Take your
time - true friendship takes a while to build under any circumstance.
Have you told him
that you still have feelings for him,
 and
that you are uncertain about your relationship (friend or otherwise?)
Honesty would be a good start towards alleviating any resentment or
hurt for both of you. If this guy is going to be your friend, or if
you want to start another relationship, you need to be upfront about
your feelings.
As for your decision
to take some time off - well, he probably felt rejected. Tell
him again that it was for your good and had nothing to do with him
- I bet this time he'll believe you.
Take Care,
- Judith
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