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Dear Hopelessly
Confused,
Yeah, I know of
a way to get him to stop hurting so much from what you've done.
 Stay
away from him! Time has a way of healing just about anything,
and I think that time would take care of your friend if you don't
keep re-opening his scabs.
But I know that's
not the answer you're looking for and it's actually not the answer
that I might follow. I believe that good friends are hard
to come by. It's unfortunate that this "romance dance"
that you're both participating in has now become something that
can be hurtful, with the constant "come hither, go thither"
messages that you're putting out.
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But of course you that think swing
dancing is the answer to everything.
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Can you stop this romance dancing and go swing dancing instead? It
would be healthier and probably more exercise.
I don't have enough
information as to why you and this guy continue to break up and
get together to determine if you should be a couple or stay apart.
It seems like your actions might be caused by pure wishy-washyness.
But after so many times, I'd say give it up. Quit putting
out these mixed messages, look for someone else to romance dance
with, keep this guy as one of your good buddies, and keep your hormones
in check when with him, if he allows it in the future.
- Lefty
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