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Dear Panel,

I am a very nice guy, nice looking, own my home have a fairly good job but don't make a lot of money. Are there any women today who are looking for love and not income, and if there are  where are they???

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Eric
 

Gillian Answers:

Unless you've been told directly (and repeatedly, by lots of different women) that it is your financial status that makes you "undateable",

I would jump to that conclusion.

guestFtin.gif I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that your lackluster love life is linked to your income.

How are you trying to meet women now? Bars and clubs aren't always conducive to founding deep, meaningful, loving relationships. Have you considered taking a class or volunteering your time somewhere? (A person who would spend time volunteering for a good cause might be one less likely to be concerned with material possessions.)

Another thing that may be helpful is to take a good look at some other explanations of why you're having trouble meeting women. You say your job is "fairly good" -- not exactly the most ringing endorsement.

Unless  he makes lots of money doing it.

guestFtin.gifIf you're not excited and passionate about your work, that might be something a woman finds unattractive.

Now I have a question for you: why you would make this kind of generalization about the gender you are trying to meet and fall in love with?  When you meet women, do you display any hint of this attitude of "all they want is money"? If so, it's not surprising that your dating life is not all you would like it to be.

 

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