Dear Panel,

I'm a very pretty & attractive woman. I have a  stable job & I just bought a car. I just cant seem to find a man though. I've never had a serious relationship, they don't last more than a month and I've been told that I'm a good person with qualities most men want. I recently meet a man of my dreams but, as with the other guys I get involved with, it only lasted for a month and he disappeared. What should I do? I'm at a stage where I feel I should throw in the towel and forget about men but I still want to get married and have kids some day!!

confused