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There could
be many reasons why your relationships do not last long.
Maybe you're looking for the wrong type of man, the kind of
man that is not interested in a serious relationship but only
for a "good time." Maybe these men are immature and
can't make a commitment.
On the other hand, you should probably examine your own
actions. Maybe your boyfriends are scared off because you are
taking things too quickly. Maybe you are placing unrealistic
expectations on them or on the relationship that are causing
you to be continually disappointed.
Just because you're pretty and have a car and a good job doesn't
guarantee that you will find a husband,
because
a meaningful relationship is built on so much more than that.
If you want to attract and eventually marry a man that will
be devoted to you, appreciate the person that you are (and not
just looks which are temporary anyway), then you need to cultivate
the inner qualities that he will be seeking. In other words,
to find the right person, you need to be the right person. So
try not to worry so much about looking for someone. Focus on
your own growth and goals in life, and then wait for the right
one to come along to you in response to the inner beauty that
he sees.
Remember also that true love is difficult to find but it is
worth the wait. Try to be patient!
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