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Dear Reader,
Stop Having Sex
First of all, you both need to come to an agreement not to have
sex anymore until you get married.
(Premarital sex is what caused your problem in the first place.)
Perhaps this is a way to bring the two of you back to purity in
your relationship so that you can start off right in your marriage.
That will make it that much sweeter when you do give yourselves
to each other on your wedding night.
What the Bible Says
In the Bible it says that:
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.
Old things have passed away, behold all things have become new."
(2 Corinthians 5:17)
When you give your life to Christ and ask for forgiveness for your
sins, God wipes away all of your past mistakes and shortcomings
– everything – as though it had never happened.
God Can Make You a Virgin Again
This is the only way for either of you to truly regain your virginity
in a sense and to start off your marriage "fresh." The
past is gone with all of your mistakes and sins, and all things
will become new. Wouldn't you love to start all things new on your
wedding night having saved yourself for each other from today until
the day you get married?
Ask for God's Forgiveness
Now, after both of you receive God's forgiveness, you also need
to forgive each other for things you have done in your past. You
are not perfect. (None of us are). If you want your future wife
to forgive you for whatever mistakes you have made in the past,
you need to be willing to forgive her and love her with an unconditional
love.
Besides, the more important thing is that you truly pledge your
faithfulness to each other from this day forward. You can't change
the past, but you have control over your actions in the future.
– Hope
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