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Back to what triggered this response.

Jody said:

If Patrick is using the porn for masturbation, which he probably is, he is demonstrating that he sees women as a tool to be used for self-satisfaction. Sex to him is something he GETS not a relationship he HAS.

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Alicia said:

If your fiancée was talking about her ex, be worried.  If she was comparing you to him, be angry.

Well actually, it's kind of a side-note, but I was wondering what you meant by that.

See, I have the same problem that this guy had, but I'm not letting it get to me if at all possible.

I love my boyfriend dearly and don't want to let anything like this get in the way. However, it's a little more complicated situation because my boyfriend is actually a divorcee, so his "ex" is actually his ex-wife. Well, anyways, I was just reading this question because I was curious as to what you guys had to say, and well I stumbled onto that little sentence about if she's talking about her ex be worried, and it got me thinking.

What exactly do you mean by that and why should he be worried? I'm just curious for the sake of my own... curiosity. :)

I'll admit that Tim (my boyfriend) does mention Caroline (his ex-wife) every so often, but more in a reminiscent fashion of some happy memory. I'll admit it does bother me just a little, because I get a little jealous of her, but I don't mind so much because I know that when two people are married they tend to form at least a few memories. Granted the happy ones were few and far between... but, anyways, I was just curious...

That's all.

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