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Back to what triggered this response.

A reader named Playboy said:

A guy can respect women and not be a sex-crazed maniac, and still look at porn.

 

A Reader Responds:

 

I believe you have to look at pornography for what it is.

It makes women objects of sexual pleasure rather than the beautiful, human beings that they are.

I don't like porn either, but in moderation it is not harmful.

When you make love to a real live person you may have more of a problem being turned on because you have depended on the harshness, and graphic pornographic images to get you off. Women are not programmed to respond like those images.

Possibly women may have moments that they do, but sex is not about a big graphic turn on, which is what pornography presents.

I think the bottom line is to look at how you respond to individuals when you are intimate and let that guide you.

- Starry Eyes

 

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