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I believe you
have to look at pornography for what it is.
It makes women
objects of sexual pleasure rather than the beautiful, human
beings that they are.
When you make love
to a real live person you may have more of a problem being
turned on because you have depended on the harshness, and
graphic pornographic images to get you off. Women are not
programmed to respond like those images.
Possibly women
may have moments that they do, but sex is not about a big
graphic turn on, which is what pornography presents.
I think the bottom
line is to look at how you respond to individuals when you
are intimate and let that guide you.
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Starry Eyes
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