I agree because...I had a similar problem. I was the one who ended it with my ex. I kept wondering if I had made the right decision after my current boyfriend and I had started becoming serious.

We moved in together and with each step I moved forward with my boyfriend, the more I thought about my ex. It started to really effect my current relationship because I was becoming distant. I was starting to think that maybe I was still in love with my ex-boyfriend.

However, I ended up seeing my ex, and I had no feelings come to surface. I enjoyed seeing him but there was certainly nothing romantic going on. All I could think about was my boyfriend. What I realized was that I was in love with the feeling I had when I was with my ex. I dated him from the time I was 16 until I was 20. I didn't have the shared responsibility of living together that I have with my current boyfriend.It was a giddy, young love and I missed that feeling, not the ex.

When I saw him,I remembered the reasons we broke up. We just weren't good together. He and I may have grown and matured but this hadn't changed. Once I grew up enough to accept a mature and loving relationship mine has been 100 times better. I agree, follow your mind not your heart.

wise girl